Dilemma..?????

Some times i wonder what is tougher to hold on or to move on.....

Some thing i read a few days back cought my attention and ignited a series of thoughts...It read ---- " I cried today, not because i wanted you or even missed you, but because i finally realised i will be OK without you".

There are times when i feel that to let go of the pain would mean letting go of the last hope that things may change. I am so scared of my own ability to bounce back from almost every situation...scared that life will become just fine ... scared because some where deep inside I do not want life to be the same ever again...

...but the truth is IT WILL BE !